Herbal Enema wrote:
Okay, but what are your reasons for saying aborting a fetus is wrong (you still havn't answered!)?
Here's why I say it's okay.
1) It cannot survive outside of the mother. The same cannot be said for your supervisor (despite the fact that he may be living in his mother's basement).
3) Clay, you've said time and time again that you are against 3rd trimester abortions. Isn't aborting someone who is already born (and speaking!) a bit later than the 3rd trimester? Not really relevent, but an interesting point, none the less.
An interesting point that your first point doesn't apply to third-trimester abortions, third trimester = 6 months = 3 months early, children MOSTLY wouldn't survive but babies just barely into the third trimester HAVE survived with proper medical care.
Herbal Enema wrote:
2) Having a child is a choice. If pregnancy happens even though you're protected, it doesn't mean it has to ruin your entire life. For those who say "just let it out for adoption," do you have ANY idea of the difference in the numbers of abortions (a million and change) compared to the number of adoptions (20k?). Well, I guess you do now.
I guess I do, but, what the hell does that have to do with it? It is legal, at any time to drop a child off at a medical facility and walk the fuck away, and never have anything to do with it again, ever. No explanations, no excuses, no charge. OK, the kid grows up knowing he/she wasn't wanted. You always point that out. So what? If people are honest with themselves, most of them weren't planned. I'm sure it would hurt their self esteem to know it. Big damn deal. better than being dead.
Herbal Enema wrote:
4) I've actually heard (well ... seen in message boards) pro-lifers saying something akin to "Well, if I get pregnant when I'm not ready, I'll just drink it into submission and beat my stomach until I miscarry, because then I won't have had an abortion, and I won't have to deal with the kid!"
Duh, that's an abortion too. Sorry. Just because you got Jack Daniels and a guy with a powerful left hook to do it instead of a doctor doesn't make it an accident. But you already knew I wouldn't defend that.
Herbal Enema wrote:
5) My wife said she found some statistics that said that a suprisingly few number of abortions are teens, more are people in the 20s. Also not very relevent to this rebuttal, but interesting to note. Found on the Center for Disease Control's website.
Once again I have to assume here that you are just mentioning a few extra things that came to mind rather than responding to me. I'm not at all surprised. People in their 20s can afford abortions and are less under the control of religious parents.
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Herbal Enema wrote:
I've said it before, and I'll say it again -- fetii are parasites. Sometimes welcome, sometimes not. Certainly never to be taken lightly.
So I have a choice. 9 month of utter misery for my wife, followed by 2 years of diapers, with at least two more years before you can ship the kid off to school, so you can get some peace and quiet for a few hours. Not to mention complete lack of privacy and intimacy with my wife (Hey babe... crap, the baby.) Booster shots and chicken pox, Doctor and Dentist, braces, strep throat, temper tantrums. All this time we either have to live in horribly crowded conditions (I live in a 1 bedroom apartment with my wife), or I spend more money (on top of the other child-related expenses) on a larger apartment or house to rent (no WAY I could afford a house payment -- for a cheap house in the area on a 30 year loan it's at least 300 more a month that this apartment, since the apartment is all bills paid). And, since I couldn't afford that, I'd have to go on welfare (oh joys!). I'd probably end up stuck in some dead-end job that barely paid the bills because I couldn't afford the time to finish college to get a good job, because I have to work at barely above minimum wage just to pay the bills. This is on top of the fact that I would never get to see my wife again, as she would have to get a job to help cover the bills, and since we couldn't afford day-care, we'd have to arrange schedules where at least one of us was home all the time. And neither of us would be in very good shape to take care of the kid, because full time jobs can be tired.
Or, we could have an abortion, and take on all of that when we are in a better position to do so.
Well that certainly was an impressive argument for the fact that having a child is not in your own best interests. Congratulations, I agree. But one thing I missed. Does that make anything about an abortion more or less moral??? How? It makes it more logical. But logic has very little room for agruing anything but the CONSISTENCY of morals. Funny that. Logic works great for computers but it makes shitty qualitative value judgements.
Oops. Also you never told me why killing is wrong, you just tried to cut into my actual belief that 3rd trimester abortions are wrong to argue with my hypothetical belief that killing in general for convenience is justified.
You never explained WHY dependance is somehow an executable offence. I mean, an infant is unlikely to survive when exposed to the elements (exposure. the earliest form of abortion). But does the fact that the child might be raised by the king of another country, kill you where three roads meet, solve the riddle of the Sphinx, marry your wife, father two children, blind himself and end up as a name for a complex that is part of a theory of human development written by a Sex-Obsessed Austrian who was never seen without a cigar (and probably didn't realize it was a phallic symbol) make the act of exposure somehow more or less heinous than killing a "parasite" that is still bloody well a member of your species with COMPLETE DNA (don't give me eggs and sperm, or cancer or amputation, that's just avoiding the issue) and potential requiring ONLY NOURISHMENT to become a COMPLETE human being.
Herbal Enema wrote:
edit: just thought of something, a point I should have made originally: My beef with the 'morality' arguement is that it's the *only* arguement they have. Morality is all and fine, but do you have something else?
Sorry? I thought we were talking about whether abortion is right or wrong, have you a non-moral argument for right and wrong? Amazing, I'd like to hear it!!! A moral argument is fine, if they back it up by researching the morality of it using empirical evidence, the scientific method, and measuring the "moral energy" of each act converted into either Ft/Lbs or Joules? WTF!?
If we are arguing legalization or not, well hell, I'll fight against illegalizing any number of things I consider immoral. (Dig up the prostitution thread) And probably fight against legalizing any (smaller of course) number of thing I don't necessarily consider "immoral". Traffic Laws for instance.