bellofthedamned wrote:
I didn't feel I used every excuse to talk about being a girl. I just am. What I think revolves around who I am, and part of who I am -- I'd say a huge part -- is feminine.
What defines a girl as a slut? I judge this from my experience alone, but a girl who will give away her body to any man to satisfy some need inside her. She probably doesn't really care for her body or for the sex, but it gives her some peace of mind about something or satisfies a craving for male attention. Essentially, she's abusing herself to satisfy something she thinks she needs, but really she needs to learn how to be satisfied with who she is.
Do I really talk about being a girl too much? I can recall saying I weighed as much as Tom Cruise and someone thinking I was a cow for it and correcting them. That's about all I remember before arwing started in on his kick.
So, essentially, any woman who wants to have sex to satisfy a need insider herself to do so is a whore. Interesting. So on a scale of 1 to Slutty where would you say I place.
Here are some statistics to help you out :I am 23 years old and have to date taken part in sexual intercourse with 23 people (some female, some male and on a few occassions with a female and a male present in the room at the same time!!! the horror), four of whom I was in a 'relationship' with at the time. Most of the sex I have had has been casual and nature and undertaken because I felt a desire within myself to get laid because I like penetrative sex and enjoy it and the orgasms it provides me with a large and, I think understandable amount. I have never been pregnant and I have never had an STD and attend regular OBGYN check ups every six months and have taken the pill religiously since the age of 14. I would never sleep with a man whom I did not respect or who I was not interested in by my own free will as I could not look at myself in the mirror knowing that I had done something so beneath me.
And yet by your classification I would assume I would be in the slutty category. Am I wrong?